Translation of "Yaralayan" in English

Nedir seni yaralayan acı

Don't you see the pain that has hurt you?

Tom'u yaralayan kişi ben değilim.

I'm not the one who hurt Tom.

Bu benim en çok üzüldüğüm beni yaralayan yorumlardan bir tanesiydi

This was one of the comments that hurt me that I was most sorry